As every one of us is unique, so too is each persons transition into retirement specific to them. Many dramatic changes come about as you leave the work force. Some people are prepared for these but many are not. Some people look no further than not having to rush out in the morning. No thought has been given as to what they will actually DO with their time now and even less to how they will view themselves outside of their "work" frame of reference. Who are you apart from your job title? Where will you find life purpose without the safety net of your place of employment shaping that for you?

The changes you face as you enter retirement can be as overwhelming as they are many. Your daily routine adjustments involve not only your personal goals but often putting boundaries on your time. Being "retired" can give friends and family the sense that your time is more available to them no, which is true to some degree. Your days can be filled up very quickly with other peoples expectations of you. This can be welcomed or not. Taking charge of those decisions and deciding what "you" want can prevent resentment from forming and are necessary for a fulfilled life.

What about changes to your social structure and status? Very often people view themselves based solely on the position they have held in the work force. Without that in place their view of who they are shatters. This can be a real problem for those who have held positions of authority. Moving into a part time second career or a volunteer position that enables them to use those specific skills can be their best option.

Enlisting a Retirement Coach can give you a sounding board to voice these concerns and others you will discover along the way. A coach not only listens but can help you focus on the goals you desire and assist you in choosing the paths to achieve them. The most important asset of your retirement is YOU. Take the time to work on personal development by taking ownership of your desires, dormant passions and creative talents. You will discover a retirement full of new found energy and peace of mind, knowing you are living life on your own terms.